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A ROOM EARLY WITH THE IDEAL MATERNITY HOME.
World War I and an influenza outbreak were factors in the
low birth rate which in turn increased the demand for adoptable
children. However after World War II, a market niche for NEWBORNS
developed in direct response to new psychological theories of
inherited intelligence and the irreversible effects of early childrearing.
The development of formula feeding which allowed for the
raising of infants without a ready supply of breast milk
was also a factor. 1 Agencies began to GUARANTEE
'perfect' children of sound heredity, without physical,
emotional or mental defects to counter the social stigma surrounding
illegitimacy, and the perceived links with depravity and 'bad
blood'. 2
In the 1960's, to ensure the 'delivery of children of this
caliber', infants were kept in STUDY HOMES
for their first 6-12 months where their physical and mental health
were closely observed before they received the stamp of approval:
ADOPTABLE. 3
An aside: I was always disconcerted to find the following
written in my own Social History : "She was found to be
a normal, adoptable child." I was irked by this professional
assessement of my worth.
Both my parents and I had been carefully
screened: just as I had been kept in foster care until I could
be deemed UNDAMAGED GOODS, my parents
had been monitored in order to determine that they were FIT
PARENTS. 4
The postwar demand for adoption soon exceeded the number of
infants available for placement. Restrictive eligibility requirements
were developed to help select prospective parents from among the
numerous applications. This funneling effect resulted in the rise
of independent and black market adoptions to cater to the refused
couples . 5
The Ideal Maternity Home was an illegally run home for unwed
mothers in East Chester, Nova Scotia, run by Lila and William
Young. Many babies were sold on the black market to childless
couples from New York and New Jersey in the 1930s and '40s. The
east coast was a popular vacation spot for these Americans, many
of whom were childless Jewish couples frustrated by the long waits
for Jewish infant adoptions back in America. The Youngs catered
to this need as they were willing to disregard the UNBREAKABLE
RULE of the era's placement agencies: that children must
be placed with a family of the same religious background. 6
The evidence I have seen is that Jewish parents
were told there were Jewish babies (at the home), and that was
extremely unlikely to have been the case. Other families knew
they were getting non-Jewish babies but were either comfortable
enough or desperate enough to take them,' Balcom said. 'Quite
consciously, the Youngs realized they had a specific market
to serve. 7
As both abortion and birth control were illegal in Canada
at that time, the Ideal Maternity Home provided an option for
many women willing to relinquish their children. Unfortunately,
many children did not find homes. These infants were later called
the BUTTERBOX BABIES ; babies who
were left to starve on a diet of molasses and water, because they
appeared to be UNMARKETABLE [sick,
deformed, disabled, or of mixed race]. A caretaker later admitted
that he was paid to bury the babies in open graves, or in butter
boxes from the local LaHave Dairy. 8
The availibility of birth control and access to abortion for
women, and the increase of single mothers has decreased the number
of infants available for adoption today in North America. While
there has been a rise in the adoption of children with special
needs and older children who had been living in foster care, the
demand for HWN [Healthy White Newborns] has steered couples towards
International adoption, where the average wait for a baby is considerably
shorter than the domestic adoption process. While it may save
time, it also requires a considerable budget. A foreign adoption
costs $12,000 to $30,000 US, depending on the circumstances, and
yet a couple is virtually guaranteed a child. 9
Some couples also turn to international adoption
to find a child of the same race. While most adoptive parents
in the U.S. are white, more than half of the children in foster
care and in need of adoptive families are African American. "Parents
often want kids who look like them to preserve the anonymity of
adoption," says Dellory Matthews of Focus on Children, an adoption
agency in Cokeville, Wyo., formed by adoptive parents. 10
Unethical or fraudulant adoption practices still persists,
long after the Ideal Maternity home scandal. Black Market adoptions
are perhaps enjoying a boom, in part to the networking possibilities
of the Internet. Recently the British government, issued a warning
by the Department of Health, to UK Internet service providers
(ISPs) against carrying advertisements for illegal adoption agencies
and services. The statement follows the controversy over the Internet
adoption of two baby girls from the US by Alan and Judith Kilshaw,
a married couple from North Wales. In that case, the couple had
paid several thousand dollars to a US mother for the rights to
adopt her twins: twins which had also been promised to two other
couples. 11
In response to stories about barriers to adoption and the lack
of children available for families to adopt locally, Heather Evans
says that there are many children who want and need permanent
homes in the province of Ontario alone; adding that it is provincial
law which is standing in the way. Nearly half of the children
in the care of the Children's Aid Society care are crown wards:
children who are permanent wards of the state. These children
have what are called ACCESS ORDERS
attached to their wardship. That means that someone connected
with their biological families like their parents, grandparents
or siblings can have contact with them. There is not contact
in all cases but it is a possibility. Ontario law states that
anyone with access orders cannot be adopted. Thousands of children
would be eligible for adoption in Ontario if these laws were changed.
12
However, it would demand the re-evaluation of the family unit
with the traditional one parent set and would require
considerable negotiations between the two parties over visitation
rights. The parent/child relationship might grow to include
shared guardianship instead of singular ownership.
Adoption is as old as the concept of family itself. Laws ensuring
ethical practices in adoption will have to shift along with changing
views of the family.
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1 ADOPTION, Doreen Arcus Ph.D.,
The Gale Encyclopedia of Psychology, 2nd ed. Gale Group, 2001
2 HISTORY, VALUES, AND PLACEMENT POLICY ISSUES
IN ADOPTION, Elizabeth S. Cole and Kathryn S. Donley in Psychology
of Adoption, Edited by David. M. Brodzinky & Marshall D. Schechter,
Oxford University Press: New York, 1990 (p. 30)
3 Ibid.
4 ITHAKA: A DAUGHTER'S MEMOIR OF BEING
FOUND, Sarah Saffian, Basic Books, New York, NY, 1998 (p.141)
5 HISTORY, VALUES, AND PLACEMENT POLICY
ISSUES IN ADOPTION, Elizabeth S. Cole and Kathryn S. Donley
in Psychology of Adoption, Edited by David. M. Brodzinky & Marshall
D. Schechter, Oxford University Press: New York, 1990 (p. 30)
6 SURVIVORS OF DARK EPISODE IN CANADA'S
HISTORY TRACE THEIR PAST, Susan K. Livio
7 Ibid.
8 Id.
9 THE LONG ROAD HOME, Catherine
Siskos, Kiplinger's Personal Finance Magazine, Issue: Dec. 2000
10 Ibid.
11 BRITISH GOVT WARNS ISPs OVER ILLEGAL
ADOPTION ADS, Sylvia Dennis, Newsbytes News Network, Issue:
Jan 23, 2001
12 CBC OTTAWA BROADCAST - Ontario
Today [Adoption Laws] Host Dave Stephens with guest Heather Evans,
July 9, 1998
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